Thursday, October 3, 2013
Bedroom and Beyond: Variety Make Monogamy Fun!
Bedroom and Beyond: Variety Make Monogamy Fun!: The key to a happy relationship is communication, trust, and a healthy sex life! Some say that sex is not everything in a relationship, but ...
Variety Make Monogamy Fun!
The key to a happy relationship is communication, trust, and a healthy sex life! Some say that sex is not everything in a relationship, but I beg to differ. Sex is a physical way for two people to express how they feel about each other. It can bring people closer together, create a family and relieve stress. Sex is good for relationships.
Why don't couples have enough sex? Three reasons come to mind. 1) TIME- Many people hustle through life trying to get too much done in a small enough of time. With kids, careers and sleep there is not enough time in the day to even think about having sex. 2) TRUST- If you are not having a healthy sex life in your relationship because of a trust issue with your partner, then you should re-think your relationship! With out trust, what is the point of being in the relationship? Are you always speculating and accusing your partner of cheating or looking at another because of an event that has happen in the past? Then move on and find someone whom you can trust, because you will never again trust that person and you will always have speculations and doubts. 3) BOREDOM- Sometimes the same thing over and over again can get tedious and boring. If your sex life has the same routine and getting ready for work in the morning then you need to spice things up a bit. If you eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich everyday for 10 years, you are going to get sick of it and find yourself straying...finding something different!
Being a Passion Parties consultant, I have found the one of the top reasons relationships fall apart is due to an un-healthy sex life...what ever the reason may be. I try to encourage my clients to get creative and communicate with their partners about what they want in the bedroom. I offer them many different solutions to help shake up the romance! This is what I tell them:
"OK, how many times a week would you like to have sex with your partner? Three? Ok, I want to you to pick three days or nights a week that you will reserve for sex, write them on the calendar. Then I want you to pick three different themes. (I usually suggest glow-in-the-dark, edible, and oral, etc.) Assign one theme for each day and plan ahead, purchase items to fulfill each of the themes."
GLOW-IN-THE-DARK: Purchase glow stick bracelets and anklets, crack them to initiate glowing and wear them on each of your limbs. Once you both have them on .....turn off the lights. The only indication to where your parnter is is by the light of their glow sticks. Its a sexy game of Marco Polo!!
EDIBLE: This is any sex session that also incorporated food. This can be chocolate syrup, whipped cream, pudding, strawberries, or any other food group that turns you on. Passion Parties has an awesome line of edible products that are safe to use during sex but taste oh so good. I suggest Candylicious Cotton Candy, it is a great oral gel that can fun up a sexy kiss or add a sizzle to oral.
ORAL: While many think that oral is foreplay, but for the sake of spicing things up, use this night to do nothing BUT oral. This is a great way to spend quality time...down there. This is the time HE can take to learn what works for you and what doesn't. There is NO penetration this night. Take the time with each other and really make love. This is a great way to use communication to tell your partner where to go and what to do.
If you take the time and energy to add variety to your love making, it will help keep you sex life exciting and spontaneous. Variety really does make monogamy fun! Passion Parties has all the products you will need to have fun, exciting, and really hot sex all year long! We just released a Winter catalog with some super awesome products to heat up those cold nights with your sweetie!
Why don't couples have enough sex? Three reasons come to mind. 1) TIME- Many people hustle through life trying to get too much done in a small enough of time. With kids, careers and sleep there is not enough time in the day to even think about having sex. 2) TRUST- If you are not having a healthy sex life in your relationship because of a trust issue with your partner, then you should re-think your relationship! With out trust, what is the point of being in the relationship? Are you always speculating and accusing your partner of cheating or looking at another because of an event that has happen in the past? Then move on and find someone whom you can trust, because you will never again trust that person and you will always have speculations and doubts. 3) BOREDOM- Sometimes the same thing over and over again can get tedious and boring. If your sex life has the same routine and getting ready for work in the morning then you need to spice things up a bit. If you eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich everyday for 10 years, you are going to get sick of it and find yourself straying...finding something different!
Being a Passion Parties consultant, I have found the one of the top reasons relationships fall apart is due to an un-healthy sex life...what ever the reason may be. I try to encourage my clients to get creative and communicate with their partners about what they want in the bedroom. I offer them many different solutions to help shake up the romance! This is what I tell them:
"OK, how many times a week would you like to have sex with your partner? Three? Ok, I want to you to pick three days or nights a week that you will reserve for sex, write them on the calendar. Then I want you to pick three different themes. (I usually suggest glow-in-the-dark, edible, and oral, etc.) Assign one theme for each day and plan ahead, purchase items to fulfill each of the themes."
GLOW-IN-THE-DARK: Purchase glow stick bracelets and anklets, crack them to initiate glowing and wear them on each of your limbs. Once you both have them on .....turn off the lights. The only indication to where your parnter is is by the light of their glow sticks. Its a sexy game of Marco Polo!!
EDIBLE: This is any sex session that also incorporated food. This can be chocolate syrup, whipped cream, pudding, strawberries, or any other food group that turns you on. Passion Parties has an awesome line of edible products that are safe to use during sex but taste oh so good. I suggest Candylicious Cotton Candy, it is a great oral gel that can fun up a sexy kiss or add a sizzle to oral.
ORAL: While many think that oral is foreplay, but for the sake of spicing things up, use this night to do nothing BUT oral. This is a great way to spend quality time...down there. This is the time HE can take to learn what works for you and what doesn't. There is NO penetration this night. Take the time with each other and really make love. This is a great way to use communication to tell your partner where to go and what to do.
If you take the time and energy to add variety to your love making, it will help keep you sex life exciting and spontaneous. Variety really does make monogamy fun! Passion Parties has all the products you will need to have fun, exciting, and really hot sex all year long! We just released a Winter catalog with some super awesome products to heat up those cold nights with your sweetie!
Sunday, September 22, 2013
Snuggle Up and Get Cozy
With fall here, Its the perfect time to think about bonfires and barbecues, sexy nights and snuggling up! You can create a passionate night of keeping each other warm by just being together. Make dinner together, watch a movie, share in a night of board games and get creative in the bedroom.
Start with a nice warming massage. You can use Passion Parties Soy Seduction Candle to start the evening off right. It is a candle that you light and when the wax melts, you can our it on your lover and use it as a massage oil. It is a soy based wax so it melts at a lover temperature so it wont be hot. And it does not harden so no painful tearing of skin and hair.
Next, create a playful environment with fun edibles. The Candy-licous oral gel is a fabulous way to add flavor to a kiss or anything else you use your mouth for :) It comes in Cotton Candy, Strawberry and Mint. Passion Parties also has great flavored lubes and lotions. Incorporating food in any romp session is a fun way to build communication and intimacy. Strawberries, syrups, pudding or whipped cream are just a few ways to make it a yummy night.
Start with a nice warming massage. You can use Passion Parties Soy Seduction Candle to start the evening off right. It is a candle that you light and when the wax melts, you can our it on your lover and use it as a massage oil. It is a soy based wax so it melts at a lover temperature so it wont be hot. And it does not harden so no painful tearing of skin and hair.
Next, create a playful environment with fun edibles. The Candy-licous oral gel is a fabulous way to add flavor to a kiss or anything else you use your mouth for :) It comes in Cotton Candy, Strawberry and Mint. Passion Parties also has great flavored lubes and lotions. Incorporating food in any romp session is a fun way to build communication and intimacy. Strawberries, syrups, pudding or whipped cream are just a few ways to make it a yummy night.
You can shop for these and other yummy and fun items for help you both stay warm this fall on
Monday, September 16, 2013
Fifty Shades of Naughty
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Now if you were to Google BDSM, a bunch of hard core websites would pop up and scare the crap out of anyone who know nothing about this lifestyle. While the descriptive nature of these Fifty Shade books can and will elicit a few different emotions in you (range from anger to turned on), I'd say the BDSM in these books is extremely light. Light in the sense that it is fantasy roll play that you and your significant other can do here in the real world.
If chains and whips DON'T excited you (Rhianna), then you can try playful items such as a blind fold, satin restraints and fuzzy handcuffs. Passion Parties has everything needed to experiment with light bondage in a safe, playful and non-painful manner. Passion Parties even has the Liberator Pillow to tip the woman's pelvis up for better G- spot stimulation.
Passion Parties also has a Spreader for fun position for releasing control.
The idea of the spreader is to have your wrists and ankles restrained for a bent over position. Don't worry ladies, they are attached by Velcro so you can easily release your self if at ant time you feel uncomfortable.
The purpose of this line of products by Passion Parties is to get you and your mate to open up lines of communication and try things just outside your comfort zone. If you are curious, read the books. I recommend that you don't ready them at work because you may become turned on and that would be just awkward!
If going into a sex shop to find items to bring home and play with worry you because the creepy man behind the counter will see you or you want to take your time in a safe and comfortable environment, then shop at Passion Parties
Browse the Fun and Fantasy line to explore your inner naughty girl. Enter the code word: SPANKME to receive 15% off your order (expires November 30,2013)
Wednesday, May 22, 2013
That's one big vagina!
So I found this online and thought it was pretty funny. It also made me think about how far us women have come. There was once a time where we were thought of as a man's property, we couldn't vote and were expected to stay home barefoot an pregnant. Now there are parades and rallies celebrating the vagina! The vagina (the actual organ and the women who own them) is a powerful thing. Men fight over it, women dress it up, it brings in new life and runs the world. Without the vagina, our society would cease to exist....Literally!!!! Rise up and pamper your vagina! Don't be afraid to explore what makes you feel good! Your vagina will thank you for it! Passion Parties can help.
Www.bedroomandbeyond.yourpassionconsultant.com
Sunday, May 19, 2013
Are Your Sex Toys Re-Furbished?
Are your sex toys re-furbished?
We recycle plastic water bottles and aluminum cans, we recycle clothes and paper products....have you ever stopped to think about your sex toys.
Have you ever wondered why some sex toys you buy online are super cheap and why some are pricier than others? Well, read the package! The cheaper sex toys that you can buy on Amazon or other online stores like it are made with used sex toy material. SERIOUSLY!!! If you read the package, it will tell you that the materials are made from "recycled material". WTF???!!!???
I did a little research on this and found websites that actually have you mail in your "clean" used sex toys, where they sterilize, melt down and recycle the plastic material.
I don't know about you all but there is no way that I want to use a toy that was, somewhere along the way, used by someone else.
With Passion Party toys and products, ALL material is first time around and you will not have to worry about if someone before you had "used" them.
www.bedroomandbeyond.yourpassionconsultant.com
Leave me a comment and tell me your thoughts. I am curious how anyone feels about this.
We recycle plastic water bottles and aluminum cans, we recycle clothes and paper products....have you ever stopped to think about your sex toys.
Have you ever wondered why some sex toys you buy online are super cheap and why some are pricier than others? Well, read the package! The cheaper sex toys that you can buy on Amazon or other online stores like it are made with used sex toy material. SERIOUSLY!!! If you read the package, it will tell you that the materials are made from "recycled material". WTF???!!!???
I did a little research on this and found websites that actually have you mail in your "clean" used sex toys, where they sterilize, melt down and recycle the plastic material.
I don't know about you all but there is no way that I want to use a toy that was, somewhere along the way, used by someone else.
With Passion Party toys and products, ALL material is first time around and you will not have to worry about if someone before you had "used" them.
www.bedroomandbeyond.yourpassionconsultant.com
Leave me a comment and tell me your thoughts. I am curious how anyone feels about this.
Sunday, May 5, 2013
MAY is Masturbation Month
So May is National Masturbation Month! I encourage everyone to explore your bodies and what feels good to you. Many people get embarrassed and squirmish when the subject of masturbation comes up. It is a case of the usual, "if I don't talk about it no one will know I do it!"
If you are one of those people who says you dont masturbate.....YOU'RE A LIAR!! (all in good fun)
Maturation can relieve stress, cure headaches, save time and lets just say it...feels good. Whatever the moral or spiritual opposition to masturbation is...biologically it is necessary. Our bodies are hard wired to feel the pleasure of masturbation.
It is also important to masturbate because it gives you an opportunity to figure out what you like. Like I tell my ladies during a Passion Party, "If you don't know what you like, how is your partner going to know what you want?"
There are a ton of products for the fondling beginners to the masturbation master's on my Passion Party website.
www.bedroomandbeyond.yourpassionconsultant.com
There are simple items such as feather ticklers and massage oils all the way to vibrators and anal toys. Explore what makes your toes curl. You will thank me later :)
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