Thursday, October 3, 2013
Bedroom and Beyond: Variety Make Monogamy Fun!
Bedroom and Beyond: Variety Make Monogamy Fun!: The key to a happy relationship is communication, trust, and a healthy sex life! Some say that sex is not everything in a relationship, but ...
Variety Make Monogamy Fun!
The key to a happy relationship is communication, trust, and a healthy sex life! Some say that sex is not everything in a relationship, but I beg to differ. Sex is a physical way for two people to express how they feel about each other. It can bring people closer together, create a family and relieve stress. Sex is good for relationships.
Why don't couples have enough sex? Three reasons come to mind. 1) TIME- Many people hustle through life trying to get too much done in a small enough of time. With kids, careers and sleep there is not enough time in the day to even think about having sex. 2) TRUST- If you are not having a healthy sex life in your relationship because of a trust issue with your partner, then you should re-think your relationship! With out trust, what is the point of being in the relationship? Are you always speculating and accusing your partner of cheating or looking at another because of an event that has happen in the past? Then move on and find someone whom you can trust, because you will never again trust that person and you will always have speculations and doubts. 3) BOREDOM- Sometimes the same thing over and over again can get tedious and boring. If your sex life has the same routine and getting ready for work in the morning then you need to spice things up a bit. If you eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich everyday for 10 years, you are going to get sick of it and find yourself straying...finding something different!
Being a Passion Parties consultant, I have found the one of the top reasons relationships fall apart is due to an un-healthy sex life...what ever the reason may be. I try to encourage my clients to get creative and communicate with their partners about what they want in the bedroom. I offer them many different solutions to help shake up the romance! This is what I tell them:
"OK, how many times a week would you like to have sex with your partner? Three? Ok, I want to you to pick three days or nights a week that you will reserve for sex, write them on the calendar. Then I want you to pick three different themes. (I usually suggest glow-in-the-dark, edible, and oral, etc.) Assign one theme for each day and plan ahead, purchase items to fulfill each of the themes."
GLOW-IN-THE-DARK: Purchase glow stick bracelets and anklets, crack them to initiate glowing and wear them on each of your limbs. Once you both have them on .....turn off the lights. The only indication to where your parnter is is by the light of their glow sticks. Its a sexy game of Marco Polo!!
EDIBLE: This is any sex session that also incorporated food. This can be chocolate syrup, whipped cream, pudding, strawberries, or any other food group that turns you on. Passion Parties has an awesome line of edible products that are safe to use during sex but taste oh so good. I suggest Candylicious Cotton Candy, it is a great oral gel that can fun up a sexy kiss or add a sizzle to oral.
ORAL: While many think that oral is foreplay, but for the sake of spicing things up, use this night to do nothing BUT oral. This is a great way to spend quality time...down there. This is the time HE can take to learn what works for you and what doesn't. There is NO penetration this night. Take the time with each other and really make love. This is a great way to use communication to tell your partner where to go and what to do.
If you take the time and energy to add variety to your love making, it will help keep you sex life exciting and spontaneous. Variety really does make monogamy fun! Passion Parties has all the products you will need to have fun, exciting, and really hot sex all year long! We just released a Winter catalog with some super awesome products to heat up those cold nights with your sweetie!
Why don't couples have enough sex? Three reasons come to mind. 1) TIME- Many people hustle through life trying to get too much done in a small enough of time. With kids, careers and sleep there is not enough time in the day to even think about having sex. 2) TRUST- If you are not having a healthy sex life in your relationship because of a trust issue with your partner, then you should re-think your relationship! With out trust, what is the point of being in the relationship? Are you always speculating and accusing your partner of cheating or looking at another because of an event that has happen in the past? Then move on and find someone whom you can trust, because you will never again trust that person and you will always have speculations and doubts. 3) BOREDOM- Sometimes the same thing over and over again can get tedious and boring. If your sex life has the same routine and getting ready for work in the morning then you need to spice things up a bit. If you eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich everyday for 10 years, you are going to get sick of it and find yourself straying...finding something different!
Being a Passion Parties consultant, I have found the one of the top reasons relationships fall apart is due to an un-healthy sex life...what ever the reason may be. I try to encourage my clients to get creative and communicate with their partners about what they want in the bedroom. I offer them many different solutions to help shake up the romance! This is what I tell them:
"OK, how many times a week would you like to have sex with your partner? Three? Ok, I want to you to pick three days or nights a week that you will reserve for sex, write them on the calendar. Then I want you to pick three different themes. (I usually suggest glow-in-the-dark, edible, and oral, etc.) Assign one theme for each day and plan ahead, purchase items to fulfill each of the themes."
GLOW-IN-THE-DARK: Purchase glow stick bracelets and anklets, crack them to initiate glowing and wear them on each of your limbs. Once you both have them on .....turn off the lights. The only indication to where your parnter is is by the light of their glow sticks. Its a sexy game of Marco Polo!!
EDIBLE: This is any sex session that also incorporated food. This can be chocolate syrup, whipped cream, pudding, strawberries, or any other food group that turns you on. Passion Parties has an awesome line of edible products that are safe to use during sex but taste oh so good. I suggest Candylicious Cotton Candy, it is a great oral gel that can fun up a sexy kiss or add a sizzle to oral.
ORAL: While many think that oral is foreplay, but for the sake of spicing things up, use this night to do nothing BUT oral. This is a great way to spend quality time...down there. This is the time HE can take to learn what works for you and what doesn't. There is NO penetration this night. Take the time with each other and really make love. This is a great way to use communication to tell your partner where to go and what to do.
If you take the time and energy to add variety to your love making, it will help keep you sex life exciting and spontaneous. Variety really does make monogamy fun! Passion Parties has all the products you will need to have fun, exciting, and really hot sex all year long! We just released a Winter catalog with some super awesome products to heat up those cold nights with your sweetie!
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