Bedroom and Beyond: Variety Make Monogamy Fun!

Bedroom and Beyond: Variety Make Monogamy Fun!: The key to a happy relationship is communication, trust, and a healthy sex life! Some say that sex is not everything in a relationship, but ...

Variety Make Monogamy Fun!

The key to a happy relationship is communication, trust, and a healthy sex life! Some say that sex is not everything in a relationship, but I beg to differ. Sex is  a physical way for two people to express how they feel about each other. It can bring people closer together, create a family and relieve stress. Sex is good for relationships.

Why don't couples have enough sex? Three reasons come to mind. 1) TIME- Many people hustle through life trying to get too much done in a small enough of time. With kids, careers and sleep there is not enough time in the day to even think about having sex. 2) TRUST- If you are not having a healthy sex life in your relationship because of a trust issue with your partner, then you should re-think your relationship! With out trust, what is the point of being in the relationship? Are you always speculating and accusing your partner of cheating or looking at another because of an event that has happen in the past? Then move on and find someone whom you can trust, because you will never again trust that person and you will always have speculations and doubts. 3) BOREDOM- Sometimes the same thing over and over again can get tedious and boring. If your sex life has the same routine and getting ready for work in the morning then you need to spice things up a bit. If you eat a peanut butter and jelly sandwich everyday for 10 years, you are going to get sick of it and find yourself straying...finding something different!

Being a Passion Parties consultant, I have found the one of the top reasons relationships fall apart is due to an un-healthy sex life...what ever the reason may be. I try to encourage my clients to get creative and communicate with their partners about what they want in the bedroom. I offer them many different solutions to help shake up the romance! This is what I tell them:

"OK, how many times a week would you like to have sex with your partner? Three? Ok, I want to you to pick three days or nights a week that you will reserve for sex, write them on the calendar. Then I want you to pick three different themes. (I usually suggest glow-in-the-dark, edible, and oral, etc.) Assign one theme for each day and plan ahead, purchase items to fulfill each of the themes."

GLOW-IN-THE-DARK: Purchase glow stick bracelets and anklets, crack them to initiate glowing and wear them on each of your limbs. Once you both have them on .....turn off the lights. The only indication to where your parnter is is by the light of their glow sticks. Its a sexy game of Marco Polo!!

EDIBLE: This is any sex session that also incorporated food. This can be chocolate syrup, whipped cream, pudding, strawberries, or any other food group that turns you on. Passion Parties has an awesome line of edible products that are safe to use during sex but taste oh so good. I suggest Candylicious Cotton Candy, it is a great oral gel that can fun up a sexy kiss or add a sizzle to oral.

ORAL: While many think that oral is foreplay, but for the sake of spicing things up, use this night to do nothing BUT oral. This is a great way to spend quality time...down there. This is the time HE can take to learn what works for you and what doesn't. There is NO penetration this night. Take the time with each other and really make love. This is a great way to use communication to tell your partner where to go and what to do.

If you take the time and energy to add variety to your love making, it will help keep you sex life exciting and spontaneous. Variety really does make monogamy fun! Passion Parties has all the products you will need to have fun, exciting, and really hot sex all year long! We just released a Winter catalog with some super awesome products to heat up those cold nights with your sweetie!

Snuggle Up and Get Cozy

With fall here, Its the perfect time to think about bonfires and barbecues, sexy nights and snuggling up! You can create a passionate night of keeping each other warm by just being together. Make dinner together, watch a movie, share in a night of board games and get creative in the bedroom.

Start with a nice warming massage. You can use Passion Parties Soy Seduction Candle to start the evening off right. It is a candle that you light and when the wax melts, you can our it on your lover and use it as a massage oil. It is a soy based wax so it melts at a lover temperature so it wont be hot. And it does not harden so no painful tearing of skin and hair.

Next, create a playful environment with fun edibles. The Candy-licous oral gel is a fabulous way to add flavor to a kiss or anything else you use your mouth for :) It comes in Cotton Candy, Strawberry and Mint. Passion Parties also has great flavored lubes and lotions. Incorporating food in any romp session is a fun way to build communication and intimacy. Strawberries, syrups, pudding or whipped cream are just a few ways to make it a yummy night.

You can shop for these and other yummy and fun items for help you both stay warm this fall on

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Fifty Shades of Naughty

Ok, So who is excited that they cast FX's Sons of Anarchy start Charlie Hunnam as Christian Grey in the move Fifty Shades of Grey? This girl right here!!!! The book series if you haven't read them yet is about the lifestyle of the underground activities of the BDSM community. BDSM which is Bondage, Domination, Sadist, Masochism has become more of a  fad since the books have come out. Women are now intrigued by the idea of being tied up, spanked and told what to do.

Now if you were to Google BDSM, a bunch of hard core websites would pop up and scare the crap out of anyone who know nothing about this lifestyle. While the descriptive nature of these Fifty Shade books can and will elicit a few different emotions in you (range from anger to turned on), I'd say the BDSM in these books is extremely light. Light in the sense that it is fantasy roll play that you and your significant other can do here in the real world. 

If chains and whips DON'T excited you (Rhianna), then you can try playful items such as a blind fold, satin restraints and fuzzy handcuffs. Passion Parties has everything needed to experiment with light bondage in a safe, playful and non-painful manner. Passion Parties even has the Liberator Pillow to tip the woman's pelvis up for better G- spot stimulation. 

Passion Parties also has a Spreader for fun position for releasing control.

The idea of the spreader is to have your wrists and ankles restrained for a bent over position. Don't worry ladies, they are attached by Velcro so you can easily  release your self if at ant time you feel uncomfortable.

The purpose of  this line of products by Passion Parties is to get you and your mate to open up lines of communication and try things just outside your comfort zone. If you are curious, read the books. I recommend that you don't ready them at work because you may become turned on and that would be just awkward! 

If going into a sex shop to find items to bring home and play with worry you because the creepy man behind the counter will see you or you want to take your time in a safe and comfortable environment, then shop at  Passion Parties

Browse the Fun and Fantasy line to explore your inner naughty girl. Enter the code word: SPANKME to receive 15% off your order (expires November 30,2013) 

That's one big vagina!

So I found this online and thought it was pretty funny. It also made me think about how far us women have come. There was once a time where we were thought of as a man's property, we couldn't vote and were expected to stay home barefoot an pregnant. Now there are parades and rallies celebrating the vagina! The vagina (the actual organ and the women who own them) is a powerful thing. Men fight over it, women dress it up, it brings in new life and runs the world. Without the vagina, our society would cease to exist....Literally!!!! Rise up and pamper your vagina! Don't be afraid to explore what makes you feel good! Your vagina will thank you for it! Passion Parties can help. 

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Are Your Sex Toys Re-Furbished?

Are your sex toys re-furbished?

We recycle plastic water bottles and aluminum cans, we recycle clothes and paper products....have you ever stopped to think about your sex toys.

Have you ever wondered why some sex toys you buy online are super cheap and why some are pricier than others? Well, read the package! The cheaper sex toys that you can buy on Amazon or other online stores like it are made with used sex toy material. SERIOUSLY!!! If you read the package, it will tell you that the materials are made from "recycled material". WTF???!!!???


I did a little research on this and found websites that actually have you mail in your "clean" used sex toys, where they sterilize, melt down and recycle the plastic material.

 I don't know about you all but there is no way that I want to use a toy that was, somewhere along the way, used by someone else. 

With Passion Party toys and products, ALL material is first time around and you will not have to worry about if someone before you had "used" them.

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Leave me a comment and tell me your thoughts. I am curious how anyone feels about this.

MAY is Masturbation Month

Hello All-

So May is National Masturbation Month! I encourage everyone to explore your bodies and what feels good to you. Many people get embarrassed and squirmish when the subject of masturbation comes up. It is a case of the usual, "if I don't talk about it no one will know I do it!"

If you are one of those people who says you dont masturbate.....YOU'RE A LIAR!! (all in good fun)

Maturation can relieve stress, cure headaches, save time and lets just say it...feels good. Whatever the moral or spiritual opposition to masturbation is...biologically it is necessary. Our bodies are hard wired to feel the pleasure of masturbation.

It is also important to masturbate because it gives you an opportunity to figure out what you like. Like I tell my ladies during a Passion Party, "If you don't know what you like, how is your partner going to know what you want?"

There are a ton of products for the fondling beginners to the masturbation master's on my Passion Party website.
www.bedroomandbeyond.yourpassionconsultant.com

There are simple items such as feather ticklers and massage oils all the way to vibrators and anal  toys. Explore what makes your toes curl. You will thank me later :)

All Aboard: Let's Go To Dildo Island!

You can go on your own dildo adventure when you browse www.bedroomandbeyond.yourpassionconsultant.com You may find that this tour won't make you sea sick and you don't have to be afraid you are going to get pooped on my some seagull!

70% of women CANNOT have an orgasm with out clitoral stimulation!! And since the male penis has yet to adapt a clitoral stimulator through evolution, women must take it upon themselves to make sure they too are achieving pleasure during sex. Passion Parties has the best selection of dildos, vibrators, and couples toys to elicit passion and intimacy.

If you're flying solo, Passion Parties has great toys to help curb those "urges" so you can focus on being the fabulous single girl you can be! If you are a couple, Passion Parties has awesome couples toys and fantasy items to open communication and imagination in the bedroom!

Is your sex life stale, stagnant, or non-existent?? You can get your groove back by choosing a few fantasy and adventure products that will not only spice things up, but totally take your significant other by surprise!

If you live in the Sacramento, Roseville, Rocklin and Folsom California area, book a Passion Party with me through the website above and I will personally hook you up with big time discounts and bonuses!!

Let me help you get your groove back! Your orgasm is my passion :)

Bedroom and Beyond: G marks the spot

Bedroom and Beyond: G marks the spot: Ok Ladies- If you have never had a G-spot orgasm, then I'm sorry you have never really experienced the ultimate gut wrenching, convulse ...

G marks the spot

Ok Ladies- If you have never had a G-spot orgasm, then I'm sorry you have never really experienced the ultimate gut wrenching, convulse your body type of orgasm. If you already have great orgasms, then be prepared to have AMAZING orgasms.

First, Where is the G-spot? Does it really exist? The answer is YES!
The G- spot, named after Dr. Ernst Grafenberg, a German gynecologist who discovered the infamous spot, is located along the front wall of the vagina about one-third up. It can be found by inserting your fingers and finding the "rough" or "grooved" area. Kinda like the feeling of the roof of your mouth.Once you have found this "textured" area, press firmly up behind your pubic bone. Massage this area with the equally infamous "Come Hither" motion. You (or partner) are now massaging the G-spot. Congrats!

Second, It feels like i have to pee! Yes it does, but you will not pee! When the G-spot is being massaged, the pressure pushes against the urethra (the tube you pee out of). This pressure closes off the path of urine, so no worries you wont pee! This "feeling" of having to go to the bathroom is ACTUALLY the build up of fluids from the urethral sponge, which is equivalent to the male prostate. Some women notice that when they have a G-spot orgasm, they also "Squirt". This is completely natural and NO it is NOT URINE!

So now you know where the G-spot is and how to stimulate it. Did you know that there is a topical gel that actually helps draw blood to your G-spot and engorge the area for more stimulated and exciting pleasure? Do I dare tell you where to get it? or that it is the most amazing thing that has ever been invented? HMMMMM?

Ok, no sense in keeping this super yummy secret to myself when there are millions of women out there who can benefit from this knowledge. It is the G-Spot Gel from Passion Parties. This amazing serum has Spearmint to help open the blood vessels and tissue that make up the G-spot and Arginine to engorge the tissue and make it more sensitive! Simple as that. It is important to tell you that any position where your partner enters you from behind will be a better position to stimulate the G-spot...besides digital stimulation...no, not electronically but with fingers, your digits! LOL!!

 

You can order this stuff right now by following the link provided! 

www.bedroomandbeyond.yourpassionconsultant.com  From now until March 31st you can get 20 % off your total purchase by typing code word: LUCKY at check out....code word: LUCKY

Good Luck with your new found "Favorite" area of your beautiful body!

Penis Slippers...What do I say??

What do I say to this?

Don't ask me where to get these, I don't know.

All I can say is that is the most sporadically, misplaced pubic hair ever. Who has a pubic Mohawk?

If you live in the Sacramento Calif. area and would like to book a Passion Party or learn more about making extra money talking with women about sex and helping them find passion and intimacy, Contact me ASAP. You can message me through the web link below. There is nothing better than getting a group of girls together and talking about sex and getting FREE stuff for doing it.

If you are looking for a fun, easy job where you make 40% of what you sell and you are an awesome woman who is self motivated and willing to open yourself up to the possibilities of success then I WANT YOU ON MY TEAM!

If you live outside the Sacramento Area and want any of the above, message me and I will personally help you create your own business or connect you with a consultant in your area!
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Its like lifting weights for your vagina!

 I'm talking about Kegal Exercises. Kegals help build up your pelvic floor muscles which help you achieve better orgasms and , well...help you control your bladder as you age or have children. Kegals are the flexing of the muscle of your vagina. You can practice your kegals by stopping and  and starting your urinary flow.

If you finding it troublesome to stop and start your urine flow, then you my friends are a kegal beginner. Start off by using Kegal Pods (photo 1). Kegal pods are two connected balls  a bit smaller than ping-pong balls. Don't worry, there is a safety cord attached for easy removal. These pods are like dumb-bells for your vagina. Your body will naturally flex and release around the kegal pods.

 As you gain vaginal muscles, you can upgrade to Pleasure Pearls (photo 2), which are two separate kegal balls that are smaller than the pods. Your newly found muscles will flex to keep these balls in your body. As you get better at it, you can work your way up to Ben-Wa balls (photo 3). Just like the Pleasure Pearls your body will flex to keep these even smaller balls in your body.

Once you have built up your pelvic muscles you will find that sex becomes even better. You can flex around your partner even tighter and have more control of stronger and more intense orgasms.

You can find Kegal Pods, Pleasure Pearls and Ben-wa Balls with Passion Parties. Start building up your climax control today at www.bedroomandbeyond.yourpassionconsultant.com

Purely Instinctual

Have you ever wondered what attracts us to certain people and not others? Have you ever wondered why you can stand the natural smell of some people and protest the natural smell of others? Well, biologically we are attracted to the other persons natural love potion called Pheromones. Pheromones are a naturally secreted chemical that triggers a social response in members of the opposite sex.

Just like female dogs in heat can attract every male dog within 100 miles, human female pheromones can attract the attention of their male counterparts too. Depending of the time of the month, stress level and changes in hormones, pheromones can vary in strength and potency. Some days are great! The cute coffee house guy you are slightly crushing on gave you your vente iced mocha on the house, or maybe your boyfriend or girlfriend suddenly decided to cook you dinner and draw you a bath for no apparent reason....what ever the attention, pheromones are probably behind it. Then there are some days where everything just seems off...or at the very least just ordinary.

Turn those ordinary days into EXTRAORDINARY days with Pure Instinct! This roll on application is a synthetic pheromone unisex perfume. Pure Instinct has a wonderful attractant created to communicate your sexual readiness and heightening your partner’s desires. The scent is different on everyone because it works with your own personal pheromones to create the unique scent of YOU!! A couple dabs of Pure Instinct behind the ears or on the neck will not only kick up you attractiveness but you may also help land that promotion you were wanting or get your drinks paid for!

If you are thinking, where do I find this stuff??? Well I have made it really easy for you. Follow the link below and order online.
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Passion Parties is committed to helping enhance the intimacy and romance in your relationships. Pure Instinct is just the tip of the ice burg when it comes to turning up the heat in the bedroom!

Come together for the greater good!

Finally you both can climax together! This great new toy is made to stimulate both of your "orgasmic trigger" spots, the clitoris and the G-spot. With multiple speeds and intensities, this little gadget with really knock your socks of...and his too! The We-Vibe can be worn during sex and will also give him a little vibration down there.

70% of women need clitoral stimulation along with penetration in order to achieve orgasm.  As we all know, a man's penis does not come with a clitoral stimulator so women are having to look towards sex toys used during foreplay to meet the need. The G-spot is not a myth...it really does exist. It can be located 1/3 of the way up the vagina along the top wall up behind the pubic bone. It has the same sorta ridges as the roof of your mouth, when your guy (or Gal) massages this spot firmly with a come hither motion...you are now on your way to a G-spot orgasm.

How it Works: the top piece stimulates the clitoris and the bottom piece stimulates the G-spot. During sex, the movements from him will gently massage the We-Vibe against you body allowing you to have the full pleasure during sex that you deserve! Don't worry, it is small enough that it wont hinder sex at all!

How to get it: go to www.bedroomandbeyond.yourpassionconsultant.com and order online or follow the prompts to contact me to host your very own Passion Party. As my hostess, you get awesome discounts and even a shopping spree up to 10% of your party's retail value.

It is time that all women take control of their own pleasure...if you don't know what you like, then how will he (or she) know what you like?